An irresistible wife is a woman (or man) who can meet the needs of their husband and children in such a way that their family cherishes them. Besides, the irresistible wife supports their husband and is a loving mother to their children.
The qualities of an irresistible wife are not gender-specific. A man can also be an irresistible husband if he has all the qualities discussed.
A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life.Bible, Proverbs 31:10-12
What is an Irresistible Wife?
There are many qualities of an Irresistible Wife. She (or he) is loyal, compassionate, trustworthy, honest, forgiving, and patient. She (or he) is also willing to sacrifice their wants for the needs of their family.
How to Be an Irresistible Wife in 6 Steps
The first step to being an irresistible wife is identifying and meeting your husband’s vital emotional needs. Men’s needs are different from those of women. Men want to feel needed, respected and appreciated. They want to be the hero in their partner’s eyes.
1. Show admiration for all he does for you and the children (if any).
The emotional need for admiration is often neglected. Men need to feel loved and appreciated by their wives. Also, they crave their partner’s appreciation for their achievements and hard work. They want you to treat them like like the kings of their homes.
2. Don’t nag or criticize him without reason.
If you need to talk about something that’s bothering you, do it at a time when he’s not preoccupied with other things. Also, make reasonable requests and not selfish demands. Never criticize your husband. Instead, raise complaints about genuine concerns that deserve attention.
To improve communication with your partner, you must be a good listener. Couples should give each other their full attention and make good eye contact.
3. Show your love through physical affection and sexual intimacy.
Sexual fulfilment is the most profound need of men, so wives should be excellent sexual partners. However, men have a higher sex drive than women due to higher testosterone levels.
Also, there are different motivations for sexual fulfilment in both sexes. Men take part in sex to please their cravings. But, women’s reason is for intimacy and emotional bonding with their mate.
4. Be his recreational companion
Most men crave the companionship of their partners in recreation. So, spouses should engage in leisure activities that they both enjoy together. Set aside some time every day to spend together.
The wise saying goes, “a couple that plays together stays together.” Examples of leisure include sporting activities, recreation and hobbies. Conversely, spouses who constantly engage in separate leisures may be sabotaging their marriage.
5. The irresistible wife maintains their physical attractiveness
Most men are concerned about the physical beauty of their spouses. Elements of common concerns include body weight and physique. Besides, improving your hygiene and grooming is advisable to be continually attracted to your partner.
Men also want their wives to be emotionally appealing. They want their wives to be happy, content and fulfilled in life.
6. The irresistible wife works with their husband around domestic support
Domestic support comprises the means of maintaining a clean and welcoming home. Such activities include cooking, cleaning, and shopping to care for children and pets where available.
Domestic support is a vital emotional need of men. But, it is also becoming a concern for women as most are now engaged in full-term employment. Besides, couples should work together and seek paid help with house chores if they can afford it.
7. The irresistible wife is supportive of their husband’s dreams and goals
The man wants his wife to support him in what he does, whether pursuing a career or dreaming of a side hustle.
To become irresistible, a wife should be loyal and honest to their partner. The husband needs his wife as his best friend to share anything without judgment or guilt. He will do the same for her with no judgment or blame.
The key to being an irresistible wife is to be a supportive wife and loving mother. The most important way to show love for your husband is to satisfy his vital emotional needs. These include, on average, the following:
- No nagging or criticism
- Physical affection and sexual intimacy
- Recreational companionship
- Physical attractiveness
- Domestic support
- Support for his dreams and goals
Which of the steps to becoming an irresistible wife will you embrace?
I would love to hear your thoughts.
Thanks for your time.
- His Needs Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage (Fleming H. Revell: 2001) by Dr Willard Harley Jr.
- The 5 love languages by Gary Chapman