David Onu

He is an inspiring, patient, honest, and caring Relationship and Life Coach, giving off a fatherly feeling and vibes. When I was going through challenging times in my marriage, he created a safe space for me to feel comfortable unpacking myself.
He genuinely listened to me without judgment and reassured me that the future would be bright. He encouraged me to let go of the past, believe in myself and stride towards the future with an outlook of optimism. In talking with him, I felt listened to, valued, comforted and supported.
The incredible thing about Dr Onu’s approach is that he draws heavily from his lived experience and knowledge, which I found very authentic. Listening to his lived experiences enabled me to connect deeply with mine, helping me understand what is happening in my life.
Dr Onu is very realistic and always tells me the truth, which allows me to view my problems from different perspectives, including the solutions. Also, he is well-read and recommended incredible resources for me to read, which I found very helpful in collecting my thoughts and emotions together.
Dr Onu’s wisdom and approach to coaching were very natural and uplifting. I felt supported and guided in making my relationship and life decisions. Indeed, connecting with him was one of the best things that has happened to my personal growth in a decade!

I have met many people who have introduced me to myself, and in the end, they all blur together. But without hesitation, I will describe Dr Onu not only as a Mentor but a Gateway and a Door into self-discovery. With his guidance, I’ve shed the habit of playing small and embracing a larger version of myself.
In 2018, during a challenging period after losing my wife, Dr Onu’s coaching became instrumental. He helped me articulate and pursue my desires in my family and personal life. His support and thoughtful questioning led me to create actionable plans, making significant strides toward my dreams.
Dr Onu is the most intelligent person I know, but more important than being wise is that he only wants the best for me- an essential quality to have in a Life Coach. His uncanny ability to ask insightful questions encouraged me to explore my past experiences and values, leading to tailored solutions. His generosity in sharing valuable reading materials, coaching models, and our committed and flexible meetings equipped me with lasting self-awareness and courage.
I’m proud that Dr. Onu guided me to recognize my true motivations and personality traits. Through his coaching, I discovered that even small changes can yield profound results. Thanks to his support, I successfully navigated my period of grief and am now remarried and happy again.
In the 17 years I’ve known him, speaking with Dr. Onu has been one of my best life decisions. I wholeheartedly recommend him to anyone seeking clarity in their goals and outcomes. My experience with Dr. Onu deserves a perfect 10 out of 10!

Dr. Onu’s expertise, patience, and guidance were instrumental in helping me navigate one of the most challenging periods in my marriage. I reached out to him in a state of extreme distress, and he promptly extended his support, offering both exceptional marital and medical advice.
Dr. Onu’s commitment exceeded my highest expectations, as he consistently checked in on us and generously devoted his time. He maintained a non-judgmental and understanding approach, even during my moments of self-doubt.
As a result of his guidance, I now possess improved skills in communication, setting priorities, and rebuilding my marriage. My relationship is now flourishing, and Dr. Onu’s newsletter is a constant source of wisdom.
I also enjoy conversations with Dr. Onu, as they consistently leave me feeling inspired, encouraged, and motivated. I am profoundly grateful for his support and wholeheartedly recommend his services to anyone seeking to fortify their relationships.

In 2023, I journeyed from what I thought was a ‘stable’ 5-year relationship to a heart-breaking end. The girl I was dating had secretly agreed to marry someone else and was probably cheating on me. My heart was shattered as betrayal and untold rage left me emotionally disconnected from my friends and family.
Later on, I summoned the courage to confide in Dr Onu, my Mentor, who at that time was the only one I could speak to. I was initially hesitant but his first response validated my instincts.
He said, ‘You can’t have me as your Mentor and Coach and go into relationship issues.’ I can still vividly remember the night when I poured out my heart to him!
From our conversations and his coaching, I realized that I had my shortcomings too which I never considered or acknowledged. He taught me how to communicate effectively, that I cannot always be right and to learn to have clarity of purpose at every stage. These are the things I know I ignored in my past relationship.
I’m now happily in love with someone who’s special in all ways I would have wanted as we share the same values and non-negotiables. As they say, ‘life always gives us a second chance’. We have decided to make things work as we are clear about our desires. Are there going to be challenges? Absolutely! But am I going to give my best? Yes!! Do we have the will to get it right and keep it moving forward? This we intend to do by communicating all of our fears in all honesty.
I’m grateful to Dr Onu for his coaching and the insights from his newsletter and all the amazing articles on www.DavidOnu.com. May your ink never run dry and may your fountain of knowledge keep overflowing. I wholeheartedly recommend you to those in need of a coach.